Saturday, December 31, 2005

Phonetical Ieva

We understand that by giving our daughter a Lithuanian name with a pronunciation unknown to most North Americans, it makes it difficult for our family and friends to to know how to say it without talking with us. In an effort to help you pronounce 'IEVA' as the Lithuanians do, we spelled it out below based on the IPA (International Phonetical Alphabet). The 'i' and the 'e' keep their individual sounds, but as you say the name at normal speed the sounds blend together, almost making a 'y' sound (as in 'yawn' or 'you'). Say it aloud & you'll understand.

Monday, December 26, 2005

Merry Christmas!

Despite this being our 4th year in Lithuania, this was our first Christmas spent here. It was particularly special being our first family Christmas with ieva in the picture, and we had a fabulous time!
Christmas Eve was spent at our friends Kim & Mark's home hosting a party for the international students who weren't able to travel home for the holidays. It was a fun time of food, gifts, singing & games, and hopefully helped some of our students feel more at home, despite being so far from their families.
After the party, our friends Janneke & Reuben and their kitten Sasha came over and spent the night here so we could all get up & do a "family style" Christmas day together. We spent the day opening stockings & gifts, made and enjoyed a tasty breakfast of egg casserole & cinnamon rolls (Janneke has a bread machine!) and spent the afternoon playing cards. In the evening we went to an intimate Christmas service at our church where we sat in a circle with the 15-20 friends, colleagues & students who were still in town.
I found myself being surprisingly emotional during church (although I realize that being emotional should never come as a surprise to me...but believe it or not, sometimes it does) as I contemplated the reality of the birth of baby Jesus & looked down at my own precious baby curled up in my arms. I was especially touched when during one colleagues' prayer he thanked God for sending Christ as an sweet, innocent baby - much like our Ieva. We ended the service by lighting candles and singing Silent Night - which again, kept my tears flowing as I looked around and realized how blessed we are to have such a community - such a family - here in Klaipeda to live alongside.
The five of us came home from church to make a huge Christmas dinner - complete with honey-glazed ham (you can't buy it glazed here - we made it ourselves!), sweet potatoes, potato casserole, corn fritters, jello, salad, and Christmas cookies & hot wassail for dessert. Labai Skanau! (Lithuanian for 'very tasty!')
It was an extremely meaningful day of friends, fellowship and the distinct reminder of how blessed we are by Christ's birth and the opportunity we've been given to serve Him here in Lithuania.
Here are some photos from Christmas Eve & Christmas Day:


Christmas Eve Party with International students


Kylie Hoelterhoff & Ieva at the Christmas Eve party
(Kylie's getting practice for her new little sister coming in April!)



In front of the Christmas tree on Ieva's first Christmas morning


Andrew got a new scarf & hat for Christmas!


Ieva got new shoes from Janneke & Reuben!


Such a surprise! I got the Amazing Bullet for Christmas!
(to read the funny story behind this, click here)



Christmas dinner in our living room


We didn't have a very white Christmas, but woke up
this morning (Dec. 26) to a winter wonderland!



Wednesday, December 21, 2005

A few of my favorite things...about my daughter

In keeping with the Christmas spirit, I've decided to make a list of my favorite things - but these are all specifically about our darling nearly 3- month old daughter, ieva (pronounced 'yeh-vah' for those who have forgotten or don't know).
Now, I know that parents are supposed to be wildly in love with their babies & think theirs is the most beautiful one ever, but I feel justified to say that our kid & our adoration of her seems way beyond the norm.

These are a few of my favorite things:
  • her infectious smiles
  • her adorable dimple that dips in each time she smiles
  • her stunningly enormous & alert blue eyes
  • her perfectly tiny fingers & toes
  • her sweet voice that she's learning to use more & more
  • I love it when she's laying under her play gym, looking up at the mirror hanging above her head & smiling, cooing & talking up a storm to the girl she sees (as I'm watching her do at the moment). They have whole conversations together!
  • I love it after she finishes nursing, (when she's not asleep), she'll sometimes turn her head & just lay there looking up at me with her beautiful eyes. She'll smile & talk to me & and often reach up with one hand. We'll sit there, holding hands & talking, and I'm in heaven.
  • I love it when Andrew gets her laughing - she has the 'open-mouthed smile' & 'throw -your-head-back laughter' that brings nothing but joy to anyone around.
  • I love it when she wakes up & lays in her crib talking away in her sweet little voice to the colorful mobile spinning above her
  • I love it when I take her to events at the college (like the staff Christmas luncheon yesterday) and everyone wants to hold her & take photos of her and she's just as charming as can be as she gets passed around (you can see her working her magic with Virginia below).
  • I love it after she yawns, she always makes this cute guttural sound that tells us that her yawn is done. (almost like she's clearing her throat, but much cuter!)
  • I love it when she sneezes & then smiles after she sprays us with baby snot
  • I love it when she's bundled up in her white fleece snow suit (somewhat resembling the stay-puff marshmallow man) & I'm carrying her in the front pack and I can hold her bundled feet & kiss the top of her bundled head as she watches the world pass by as we walk.
  • I love it when she's taking a bath & she starts to kick her feet on her own & then smiles & laughs with excitement as the water splashes all over me.
  • I actually love it when she cries the 'I've just woken up & am a bit disoriented' cry where her whole face scruntches up & her mouth makes a visible frown - it's so darn cute (and rarely lasts very long...even better)!
  • I love putting my face down close to hers when she's peacefully asleep in her crib with her little arms up on either side of her head, listening to her rhythmic breathing.
Before having ieva, I remember hearing that after having a baby, you won't remember what life was like without them. Despite the sleep deprivation & spit-up stained clothes, I wouldn't go back to pre-ieva life for anything.

Sunday, December 18, 2005

Snow, Amazing Bullets, & Handel's Messiah...

Today felt like the first real winter day we've had in Klaipeda this year. Over the course of the day, over 4 inches of snow accumulated & we spent most of the day outside enjoying it! We donned our long underwear & went to the 'things' market (essentially a large, outdoor flea market) this morning with Janneke & Reuben, wandering the isles and getting ideas for Christmas gifts for each other. This market sells everything from pet supplies to shoes to DVD players to fur coats - all in individual booths set up in long isles. Here you can see everything from little babushkas (Russian grandmas) selling hand-knit wool socks to men pushing a wheeled cart around selling hot 'belaĊĦas' (a pastry with minced meat inside). It's relatively amazing to us what you can find at the market - there is truly something for everyone there!
Janneke was shocked to see the 'Amazing Bullet' (as seen on TV - called the Magic Bullet in the US) blender/ chopper/ processor for sale there, as she had been considering purchasing one of these wonders while she was in Canada this past summer. (We had never heard of it.) We've been in the market for a blender & she convinced me that the Bullet is a blender as well as so much more...so we had to have one. We talked the guy down to selling 2 of them to us for a great deal - approximately $35 US dollars each (aren't they normally like $100?) Since Janneke also wanted one, we bought them both & decided that we'd each wrap them up & give them to each other for Christmas & then make Christmas milkshakes with to test them out. We're silly, we know...but it's so much fun!!

Ieva was bundled so deep within her stroller that she slept through our whole market experience & missed the beauty of the huge falling flakes that we were getting pummelled by. After a couple hours, we were ready to thaw out and found a cafe in Old Town that looked warm & cozy. We drank tea, ate lunch & watched the snow fall outside while enjoying good conversation & warmth inside. Later, we went back to Janneke & Reuben's apartment where we played cards & listened to Handel's Messiah to continue in the Christmas spirit. It was while singing along that we came up with our own rendition in honor of our precious daughter "...the 'Ieva-lasting daughter', the prince of peace..." We think Handel would be proud of our creativity!

Tuesday, December 13, 2005

What's in a nickname?

The Lithuanian language is an extremely difficult one to learn. We're nowhere near being fluent yet, but can hold our own in restaurants and while out & about in the city. One fun thing about Lithuanian, however, are the nicknames everyone has...or more correctly I should say the diminutives each name has. You know what a diminutive is, right? Kind of the "sweet, little..." version of someone's name. Like Kimmy for Kim or Tommy for Tom.
In Lithuanian, however, every name has a diminutive version & all are very commonly used - especially with children. To fit into the grammatical structure of the language, all female names end in -a or -e, while all male names end in -as or -us. So there are two generally used suffixes to make a name diminutive. -ute is added to a female name & -ukas to a male name. My Lithuanian colleagues gave me the name "Kimute" long ago & some who I'm close with use it on a regular basis. You North Americans are probably reading it as "Kim-oot", but in actuality, it is pronounced "Kim-oot-eh" or almost sounding like "Kimootay." Andrew, for example, is sometimes called Andrukas (Ahn-droo-kus). This is the normal way the Lithuanian version of Andrew's name (Andrius) would be used.

Since Ieva is already a Lithuanian name, there's no need to make up a diminutive form like people have done for me. "Ievute" is already well established, and when we're at LCC, she is referred to more as that than in any other way. Remember now, it's pronounced "Yev-oo-teh." There is even a Barbie doll knock-off called Ieva with a miniature little girl version called Ievute. (kind of like Barbie & Skipper.) We're so used to hearing these diminutives that we use them on a regular basis, too. So, if you ever hear us referring to Ievute, you know we're talking about our precious baby girl. It especially works great when singing the Raffi song 'Baby Beluga.' When we sing it, it's "Baby Ievute in the deep blue sea..."

Because Lithuania belonged to the Soviet Union until 1991, there is a large population of ethnic Russians who live in Lithuania. You can usually tell a person's ethnicity by their name, since the Russian names don't have the same grammatical endings that Lithuanian names have. Something that Russian names do have, however, are a lot of nicknames, most of which are used interchangeably with a person's real name. Being unfamiliar with Russian names when I first got here, it took me forever to figure out which nickname went with which real name, as the correlations are sometimes difficult to find.
For example, a common Russian name is Aleksandr (for a guy) or Aleksandra (for a girl). Don't ask me how, but for some reason, the nickname that goes for both guys & girls with this name is Sasha. Sania also works. Hmmm... One that is a little easier to see the connection for is Misha for Mikhail. There's also Tania for Tatiana, Slava for Viacheslav, & Katia for Jekaterina.

And if you think some of the spellings & pronunciations of those first names are difficult - you should see the last names! I set the goal during my first year to at least properly pronounce first names - but I leave the last names to the pros.

Friday, December 09, 2005

Christmas comes early to LCC

As usual, the annual Lithuania Christian College Christmas program occurred during the 1st weekend of December. With all the end of semester Christmas events & students preparing for finals, doing it any later just wouldn't work.

I served as the Program Coordinator again this year - something I wasn't sure if I'd be able to do with ieva, but found it to be a huge relief to get a little adult interaction again! This was the first year that I didn't sing in the choir, however, so I actually got to sit & watch the program as a member of the audience, which was fun. Ieva did awesome both nights & slept through the entire thing. Because I presented flowers to Dave (the director) at the end, I sat near the front & on an end (in case I had to run out with ieva or to help with something - like the first night when Mary & Joseph had their mics on back stage & we could hear everything they were saying!) which put me directly in front of the brass band we had accompanying the choir in a few pieces. After jolting awake to the first brass proclamation of Christ's birth, Ieva slept through the rest of it without a problem.

Our program is unique, as it's all done with both English & a Lithuanian narration, and the students who participate come from 18 different countries. This year our 3 wise men were from Ghana, Kyrgystan & Lithuania, Mary was from Albania & Joseph from Ukraine. A few years ago Dave had a life-size straw horse made (straw figures are a traditional Lithuanian handicraft) for Joseph to pull Mary out on. It's on wheels, so it rolls well & the audience always gets a huge kick out of it! We also have a Lithuanian guy who's played the angel Gabriel for the past few years & we tell the whole story of him appearing to shepherds in the fields, as well as to Mary & Joseph. We also had a troupe of dancing angels, dressed in white & proclaiming God's glory. Overall, this year was one of our best yet. The choir sounded amazing (especially considering they are made up of volunteering staff, faculty & students - some who can't even read music), and we had a bell choir who also added a nice touch.

People kept asking why ieva wasn't playing baby Jesus & then were shocked when I told them that she probably wouldn't stay as calm and serene as the doll we use instead. Everyone thinks she is a perfect baby who never cries, since she knows how to turn the charm on when she's in public. Before the 2nd performance, we took a group photo with the entire cast & Andrew set ieva on the back of the big straw horse.
Everyone Ooo'ed & Aww'ed and it seemed like hundreds of photos were taken (too bad our camera batteries were dead by that time & no one has sent us a copy yet). She definitely is a little star around LCC!

All in all, the program was a success. We told the story of Christ's birth & His love for all people to approximately 1,300 people over two nights, and hopefully, what was communicated made a difference in someone's life.